If you come to my events, please follow the rules of the party.
Guests are participants with hosts in shaping rules that will encourage safer and more fun events. If you have needs for things at any of my events - especially things that would help you feel safer/more healthy - you are responsible for letting the hosts know your needs. I promise to listen respectfully and reply clearly on how we are handling your request.
I'm trying very hard to speak in "I" sentences. sweetmmeblue is of course my co-host on almost all events. She has her own thoughts and ideas, but is choosing when and how to share them. When we do modify our party rules it will be a collaborative modification that we can both stand behind.